For many women the quick fix of having an abortion in response to an unplanned pregnancy seemed like the easiest thing to do. It allowed for school, a career or maybe even a relationship to go on without interruption. The appeal was “if I just have an abortion everything will be like it was before.” But for hundreds of thousands of women it just didn’t work out that way. They are left with feelings of depression, despair, regret--maybe even shame. If you’re struggling with any of these feelings following your abortion experience, you are not alone.

Ask yourself these questions and be honest with yourself and your feelings.

Have you changed as a person since your abortion?
In what ways?

If your sister or best friend was thinking about having an abortion what would you tell her?

Have your relationships with men changed?

If you are a person of faith, has your experience with God changed?

Do you avoid people or situations that remind you of your abortion?

Did someone pressure you into having your abortion?

Are you using alcohol or drugs since your abortion?

Do you feel numb or tend to shut down in emotional situations?

Perhaps you could benefit from talking to someone who understands how you feel. Our center has specially trained counselors who will listen and help. There’s someone who wants to listen and help. Donna Pengelly is the Director of Client Services and also directs our post abortion counseling and recovery group “Forgiven and Set Free.” To contact Donna click here see directory